It makes him feel like you're mothering him, which can lead to
resentment and irritation. It makes you feel unheard and irrelevant, especially if your
repeated requests often go ignored. If nagging isn't making your man
listen, try a different approach! Arguments become about the nagging, rather than the real underlying
issues, such as trust (yours) and responsibility (his). Instead of
making him your enemy, see his side and help him see yours. Maybe he's
overworked and stressed, or maybe you're juggling too many chores and
need help. Communicate with each other! Nagging can cause both parties to question the relationship and make
them wary of seeing each other. Instead of being happy and looking
forward to each others company, you see the other person as a bother
who just doesn't understand. That sounds toxic to me! Nagging sucks the fun out of your lives together.
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